If you’ve ever asked,
‘Was it really abuse?’...
this book will answer.
Behind the Smile:
The Unseen Signs of Emotional Abuse
Get the language, examples, and truth that make everything click.
You’re not crazy. You’re not alone.
“Every page felt like my story.”
–⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Reader Review
If you’ve ever asked,
‘Was it really abuse?’...
this book will answer.
Behind the Smile:
The Unseen Signs of Emotional Abuse
Get the language, examples, and truth that make everything click.
“Every page felt like my story.”
– ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Reader Review
You’re not crazy. You’re not alone.
ABOUT THIS BOOK
This book is a powerful tool for anyone wanting to understand, prevent, or escape emotional and psychological abuse.
It's not about "why don't you just leave." Leaving is the MOST DANGEROUS time.
Benefits Of Book
Recognizing Hidden Abuse
The book helps readers identify the subtle signs of emotional and psychological abuse, which are often masked by seemingly normal behavior, affection, and manipulation.
Guidance for Friends & Family
It provides practical advice on how to support loved ones trapped in toxic relationships without judgment or pushing them away.
Empowerment & Self-Worth
Readers learn the importance of maintaining independence, setting healthy boundaries, and rebuilding self-esteem after emotional abuse.
Prevention & Awareness
By sharing personal experiences and expert insights, the book educates people on how to avoid falling into controlling relationships in the first place.
Actionable Steps for Change
It offers practical strategies for approaching difficult conversations, providing safe support, and helping individuals break free from emotionally abusive dynamics.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Tiffiny Newton
Tiffiny is a survivor, speaker, author, and advocate who turned unimaginable pain into unshakable purpose. After escaping an emotionally and physically abusive relationship, she began sharing her story to help others recognize red flags, trust themselves again, and find the courage to walk away.
As the author of Behind the Smile: The Unseen Signs of Emotional Abuse and President of IgniteHer, INC., Tiffiny now educates and empowers women across the country through online content, safe exit strategies, connection to resources, and community-based self-defense workshops. She is currently pursuing certification through the Women Empowered program by Gracie Jiu-Jitsu Largo to equip women with the skills to protect themselves physically, emotionally, and financially.
Through IgniteHer and her consulting firm, Tiffiny helps women reclaim their self-worth, rebuild their lives, and boldly step into the future they deserve.
Her story is proof that healing is possible, confidence can be rebuilt, and every woman has the power to rise.
KEY FEATURES
Personal Experience & Insights
The author shares her own journey of surviving emotional and psychological abuse, offering real-life perspectives.
Recognizing Red Flags
The book highlights the subtle warning signs of emotional manipulation and controlling behaviors that often go unnoticed.
Practical Advice & Guidance
Readers receive actionable steps on how to support loved ones in abusive relationships and how to protect themselves.
Expert Insights
The book incorporates psychological insights and knowledge to help deepen understanding of emotional abuse.
Focus on Empowerment & Healing
It emphasizes self-worth, healthy boundaries, and independence to help individuals regain control of their lives.
Supportive & Non-Judgmental Approach
The book provides compassionate strategies for having difficult conversations and offering help in a safe and respectful way.
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PEOPLE'S COMMENT ABOUT "BEHIND THE SMILE"
5.0 out of 5 stars
"Good resource"
Reviewed in the United States on December 15, 2024 Verified Purchase
This book is well written and explains the tricky and real life experience of emotional and physical abuse and how it can sneak up on someone. It guides one how to seek help and identify red flags. Highly recommend
J.Diaz
5.0 out of 5 stars
"A Must Read"
Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2025 Verified Purchase
Tiffiny is so brave, honest and sincere in sharing her story. This is a must read for anyone who has been in an abusive relationship or knows someone who is in an abusive relationship. The appendix containing resources, checklists and other information is extremely valuable.
Lisa H.
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What others are saying
"Would give 10 stars if possible."
"She is professional, kind, and knowledgeable. An expert in the topic, and I highly recommend her as a guest! Would give 10 stars if possible."
- Fabulous Over 50 Podcast
"An important and troubling issue"
"Tiffiny shares her story powerfully and really is able to take an important and troubling issue and create some understandable red flags to look for and some action steps that may help so many others as well. Great interview."
- Mind Your Midlife Podcast
"I know women will be helped"
"Tiffiny is a wonderful guest. Her topic is so important and was perfect for my midlife audience for women who need help escaping abusive relationships. Her information was delivered in a frank but encouraging way. I know women will be helped by listening to her story."
"Brings a lot of value."
"Tiffiny is such a delight to talk with! She is a great communicator and she brings a lot of value to the conversation! Thank you!!"
"Urgent and inspiring message to survivors"
"Tiffiny brings an urgent and inspiring message to survivors of domestic abuse and their loved ones. With deep insight into red flags, trauma bonding, and self-worth, she empowers listeners to break free from toxic cycles and reclaim their strength. Her approach is not just about survival—it’s about thriving. Whether offering guidance on spotting warning signs or building a positive self-image to prevent re-entering harmful relationships, Tiffiny’s wisdom is practical, compassionate, and deeply impactful. If your podcast aims to educate, uplift, and provide real hope, Tiffiny is a must-have guest. Her expertise and heartfelt message will leave your audience with the knowledge and strength to move forward. Highly recommended!."
- Healthy Mind Healthy Life Podcast
"I know women will be helped"
"Tiffiny was a delight to talk to. Very upbeat and energetic!"
"Well spoken and polished."
"Tiffiny is so very well spoken and polished. She has an amazing attitude, is extremely flexible and understanding and shares her story so eloquently. Tiffiny was the perfect guest for my podcast.!"
"Compelling conversation"
"Tiffiny was a lovely guest. She provided a compelling conversation and valuable insights!"
- UPSHIFT Podcast
"powerful insight into recognizing red flags"
"Tiffiny was an incredible guest on 1 in 3. Our conversation flowed naturally as we shared our experiences with domestic violence. She offered powerful insight into recognizing red flags, taking safe steps to leave an abusive situation, and exploring what healing can look like. We also highlighted her inspiring advocacy work in supporting others on their journeys. Her message will be invaluable for the 1 in 3 audience."
"Wonderfully insightful guest."
"Tiffiny was such a wonderfully insightful guest, and really helped us unpack our topic. It was a great conversation and we hope to have her back on again to talk more about this subject matter!"
"Openly shares her story"
"Tiffiny is a dynamic guest who openly shares her story and is quite an inspiration for those who have gone through trauma and abuse."
- Bent Not Broken Podcast
"the hell this lady went through"
"The hell that this lady went through is unfathomable....severe sexual abuse, and basically a prisoner in her own home. It is a tough story to hear, but so incredibly necessary to help anyone who is trapped in this type of abuse. Sexual abuse within a committed relationship can be confusing, and difficult to come to terms with, but Tiffiny brings it out into the light while offering many valuable tools to regain freedom and sanity."
- Surviving Toxic Relationships Podcast
"powerful story and message"
"Tiffiny is a wonderful guest with a powerful story and message to share with the listeners. I highly recommend her!"
"Unforgettable and truly inspiring"
"Tiffiny was such a powerful and heartfelt guest on Silent No Longer. Her story of overcoming abuse and finding purpose through healing and faith moved me deeply. She spoke with such honesty and strength about breaking cycles, rebuilding trust, and empowering women to believe in their worth again. An unforgettable and truly inspiring conversation."
"amazing sharing her story"
"She was absolutely amazing in sharing her story and giving the best advice to women in need of help but also those who know someone in need of help. Her book is out of the box thinking as it is a guide from an outside view to help someone in a toxic relationship."
- Look In Through The Glass Podcast
Proceeds of Behind The Smile will go to IgniteHer, Inc., a 501c3 non-profit, to help support and educate women about domestic violence, red flags, trauma bonding, etc.
www.igniteher.org
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Tiffiny Newton c/o NewTide Consulting
13575 58th St N,
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Clearwater, FL 33760
